tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7642926518478611827.post3169045011131243771..comments2023-10-09T05:02:29.608-04:00Comments on Ivey Lane: the inner voice of a not-so-average woman: Over-thinking itIveyLanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00752315896121837812noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7642926518478611827.post-90154141105388437822010-03-26T20:04:11.987-04:002010-03-26T20:04:11.987-04:00Yup, you're over-thinking it ;-)
Seriously, y...Yup, you're over-thinking it ;-)<br /><br />Seriously, you switched roles with Vince, letting him know that you would follow his lead. So as a heterosexual male, checking out couples from his perspective, is there any wonder he wasn't eyeing the other dudes? It was the first time in the role-reversal, let him know how you feel (of course, I'm pretty sure you already have!) and see how it goes next time.Hubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12080481657336478578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7642926518478611827.post-31229771381632874192010-03-26T12:24:36.953-04:002010-03-26T12:24:36.953-04:00For the record, you describe my wife perfectly in ...For the record, you describe my wife perfectly in the type of woman you like. :) I hope you guys find the right connection with a couple soon. Selfishly, that's a post I'd love to read a lot. We got lucky and connected with Bella and her husband very easily: two smart and sexy, easy going people. It's just tough making the time. <br /><br />I dig what you said about Vince getting distracted by the music. I'm no musician, but I'm the same way. Good luck and thanks for what you share.13messageshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15423518021779291575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7642926518478611827.post-40976374486470308162010-03-26T12:07:07.871-04:002010-03-26T12:07:07.871-04:00I know nothing about the reality of swinger life, ...I know nothing about the reality of swinger life, but ignorance has never stopped me from having an opinion before. I can say, even in more normal circumstances, I've never understood 'meat market' mentality. The very notion of going somewhere with the express purpose of meeting someone just to fuck them, seems odd to me. I've never done it.<br /><br />For one thing to me, having that intent beforehand destroys the spontaneous joy of sex. I don't even care for sex on Saturday nights if it becomes 'expected'. Expectations, rather than heighten my experience rather detract from them. But ymmv.<br /><br />Related to this is the meeting of people and the expectations therein. I'm a go-with-the -flow guy in those situations. I try hard not to meet people and decide 'i want to fuck this person'. Or 'i want to be friends with this person'. Certainly I have first impressions, but I try not to overanalyze or give them too much weight. A bar night dedicated to meeting people who want to have sex seems to pre-weight the interaction too much.<br /><br />Obviously, it works for a lot of people, but I don't get it, and I can see why Vince seems out of sorts (even though his reasons likely differ dramatically from mine)<br /><br />good luck working it out :-)Roaring Lion of Two Fisted Coolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04793270308404725432noreply@blogger.com