Saturday, May 21, 2011

Proj365 -- catching up (and gaps)

Here's a little catch up, without a lot of explanations or excuses. You may notice gaps in the photo days and yes, there are days I didn't take a photo.

123-365 -- Seen on a bike ride.
 126-365 Airport bookstore. Usually it's just the same ol' best sellers. Not at Dulles, baby!
 127-365 -- More Dulles customer service. Though I must say, I didn't indulge. The masseuses really didn't seem to be enjoying their work.
 129-365 -- A Saturday night out and another cool sink in a club.
 132-365 -- Beach toes. Vince and I took a couple of days and went to the beach. I meant to take some work with me and get a few things done but I forgot my jump drive. Shame on me.

FYI -- the next three photos are totally un-photoshopped. What you see is what I saw.
 139-365 The road to work. Off on another work project and this one is in the heartland. We had to drive more than 8 miles down this road to get to where we needed to be. But wow. Just wow.
 140-365 The prairie. And this is where we needed to be. Miles and miles and miles of stunning America. Holy cow, it's cool.
 141-365 A round barn ruin. Of course, we weren't the first to come around here. This old ruin was out in the middle of it. Cool, eh? Even in this part of the world, a round barn was an oddity.
 141-365 Water pump. And of course, I like to explore and found this inside the barn. (Found lots of other things too but can only catch up with so many shots here.) It was amazingly still and quiet in here. The barn was miles from pretty much anything, anywhere, and anyone. Awesome.
To catch you up a little on our Lifestyle life the fact of it is we've been over run with new friends, new experiences, and new activities. Quite frankly, with the crazy busy work schedule right now, we're having a hell of a time fitting it all in! I want to write more on the topic, or rather, I want to write more about why I'm not writing about it, but the time and the inclination just haven't been there. My blog and my life are evolving once again. A friend suggested that I not worry about the blog so much and just let thing roll; see what happens and how it changes. At the moment, I'm going with that.

Catch y'all later.

Saturday, May 14, 2011

FlutteRing -- An Eden Fantasy's Toy Review

If shrieking with laughter at your own mechanical incompetence is your thing, then you'll LUV the Romance Enhancing Fluttering. http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toys-for-men/vibrating-penis-rings/romance-enhancing-fluttering It took a few tries, and it isn't the way the manufacturer intended, but we finally found a way this little sucker worked for us and well, isn't that the point of a good sex toy?
The Fluttering is a vibrating cock ring with a few little extra enhancements. On a scale of 1 - 10, Vince and I give this little gizmo a 7 with caveats. I would have given it an 8 if it freakin' had instructions on the package. 

 In a nutshell, the cock ring fits over the penis (or dildo) with the vibrating end on top of the shaft in order to stimulate the clitoris and obviously, the man's penis. The two wings are supposed to stimulate the labia and the small ball at the end is supposed to tickle her anus. None of those things worked out so well.

The trouble is, I can't tell you what the positives were without first explaining the negatives. First, and really, I hate to sound like a moron, but this little cutie-pie didn't come with instructions. Let's just say it took several tries to find an orientation that went from "ow" to "wow." There is a nice video that another reviewer placed on the Eden Fantasy's site (you can see it at the link above) that I found AFTER we had our first encounter with it. It was nice "ohhhhhh, so THAT's how it was supposed to work" but we had fun trying different orientations -- bullet on top towards clit, bullet on bottom towards anus, bullet on top facing him. and no we didn't try bullet facing his anus 'cause, well, he don't dig that.

There were two problems for us using it "correctly" with the bullet on top towards my clit: first, it didn't reach it; second, the hard vibe hurt when he thrust. The wings were just annoying and I couldn't feel the soft little tail. 

HOWEVER, when we turned it over, the vibrations against my ass were fantastic and the soft rubber ball was an enhancement, not an annoyance. The little wings didn't add much, but didn't detract much either.

It cleans easily and the bullet itself is terrific. The package does say that it's multi-speed but the one that came in this package isn't. Oh well. I'm usually a "set it and forget it" girl anyway.

It also isn't expensive and is a fun little novelty to have in the toy chest. However, because you can't put a condom on it, Vince and I wouldn't share this item with friends and it will remain a "just for us" item. 

If you're interested in finding other penis rings or simply other adult toys, then click on either of the links below.